Re: a cry for help (for Lindor Illisse ar Valandil)

> Ok first off take this with knowing that what I say I am not saying to be mean or cold but only so that you can get the help you need. First off, everyone has thier heart broken. You will have your heart broken over and over its a fact of life and eventually you will find someone who won't break your heart. The simple fact that you jump from one relationship right into another before your over the fist and then get your heart broken again makes me think that you have some serious self esteme issues and that you will never be happy with anyone if your not happy with yourself first. Thats a fact. You need to get to the point where your happy without a significant other and just being happy all by your lonesome without anyone else- then you will be able to find a good healthy relationship. If your drinking too much stop. Saying your drinking too much because of a break up is a bull#*&^ excuse. Your drinking too much because you wanna feel sorry for yourself. Stop feeling sorry for yourself grab your bootstraps and get on with life. If your really that horribly depressed about this go and seek professional help. In most states and citys they have Mental Health for free.

*nods head* thanks for the advice and you're right. I'm a bit of a fool. *shakes head* will take care of it, I promise.

I agree with Lucky it'll take courage, but you can do it! You must find your self as a strong confident person before you jump into a new relationship. And it WILL take time, but you can handle it, I know you can. *smiles*

Take care sweets,
C and Lindor

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> > <i> Ok first off take this with knowing that what I say I am not saying to be mean or cold but only so that you can get the help you need. First off, everyone has thier heart broken. You will have your heart broken over and over its a fact of life and eventually you will find someone who won't break your heart. The simple fact that you jump from one relationship right into another before your over the fist and then get your heart broken again makes me think that you have some serious self esteme issues and that you will never be happy with anyone if your not happy with yourself first. Thats a fact. You need to get to the point where your happy without a significant other and just being happy all by your lonesome without anyone else- then you will be able to find a good healthy relationship. If your drinking too much stop. Saying your drinking too much because of a break up is a bull#&^ excuse. Your drinking too much because you wanna feel sorry for yourself. Stop feeling sorry for yourself grab your bootstraps and get on with life. If your really that horribly depressed about this go and seek professional help. In most states and citys they have Mental Health for free.</i> > <i> nods head* thanks for the advice and you're right. I'm a bit of a fool. shakes head will take care of it, I promise.</i> > I agree with Lucky it'll take courage, but you can do it! You must find your self as a strong confident person before you jump into a new relationship. And it WILL take time, but you can handle it, I know you can. smiles > Take care sweets, > C and Lindor
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